Her husband, Cuauhtemoc “Temo” Juarez, who describes himself as a conservative who voted for Trump, wrote the president a letter that was delivered through his congressman asking for a reprieve, according to Stars and Stripes.
“I came here illegally. I’m ashamed of it. I know I did something wrong,” Alejandra told NBC News. “I seriously thought that was the only exit out of a situation I was living in. I think that saved my life.”
Temo served in the U.S. Marine Corps and later joined the Army National Guard in Florida. He came to the U.S. from Mexico as a child and was naturalized days before he was deployed to Iraq. The couple has a 9-year-old daughter and a 16-year-old daughter, both born in the U.S.
There is an immigration policy for members of the military and their families called “parole in place” to “recognize the important sacrifices made by U.S. Armed forces members, veterans, enlistees, and their families. The Citizen and Immigration Services website says they provide “discretionary options such as parole in place or deferred action on a case-by-case basis.”
“I love this country. This country has given me great things because we have worked hard. But the America we are living in now is getting full of hate,” Alejandra said.
Alejandra checked in regularly with immigration authorities, during former President Barack Obama’s administration, and says she was always told she is not a criminal and has nothing to worry about.
Now, with Trump’s “zero tolerance” immigration policy, few exceptions are made for unauthorized immigrants even in cases when a crime has not been committed.
“Before you enlist in the military, think it twice. Before you marry an immigrant, think it twice. Think if it’s really worth it for you to serve this country, because look how they treated me,” Alejandra said, through tears.
If she is deported Friday, she will take her 9-year-old daughter, Estela, with her to Mexico while her 16-year-old daughter, Pamela, stays with her father in Florida
“It makes me sad, mainly because I tell my mom everything. And she always supports me … And now that I’m getting older I’m going to have more problems and issues that I’m going to need help with and I want my mom to be there with me,” Pamela told NBC News.
The parents decided to take the younger daughter to Mexico because Temo travels for work and she is too young to take care of herself.
I don’t really want to go to Mexico but I know I need to because I’m too young and also I want to go for my mom … because I don’t want her to be lonely,” Estela said.
She went on to say that she would tell Trump “I know my mom made a mistake and it was wrong but he said he was going to deport criminals. My mom is not a criminal. She is a military spouse and a mom of two kids.”
The family of four is hoping for the best. “We are just going to hug each other at night very tight and pray more. Pray like we have never prayed before. Keep fighting and keep praying,” Alejandra Juarez said.
This article originally appeared on NBC